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Offer to pick up the bill for dinner....

Offer to pick up the bill for dinner....

....but don't make a big deal if she refuses.

A common offering, particularly early on in a relationship, is for the man to pay the bill for dinner.  This has the potential to be very insulting to the woman who can feel that she is seen as not having the capacity to pay her own way. This is generally not the intent of the male who is simply out to impress.

The best approach is to offer to pay but do not be offended if you are refused. Providing her with the option is always a nice gesture however, if it turns into a power struggle then it can be counter productive. Split the bill instead or, as a cheeky approach to secure another date, say that you will pick up the tab this time and she can pay next time.

By all means, offer to pay for her dinner. But remember, sharing is caring.

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